The Ironies of Failure

by | Oct 20, 2011 | Coaching Advice, Leadership, Personal Mastery

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If we’ve read one “fail fast” article lately, we’ve read a million. Failure is an option! You can’t succeed until you fail! The Lean Startup goes so far as to encourage experimentation on your customer base, with the goal of failure, so you can turn it around into success quickly.

There’s merit to this approach, of course, and I happen to believe in the value of failure in the leader’s repertoire of success tools – in part because we simply can’t avoid it. But it’s no wonder the average leader does their best to avoid and ignore failure when it happens.

We all love a good failure

The business press loves nothing more than to haul out any public failing and shout it from the rooftops.

Just in last week’s feeds:

  • CFO Blog: Advice to Netflix – Shut Up
  • Reuters: Richard Li’s financial alchemy fails to wow
  • Solyndra CEO Resigns As Company Faces Questions From Lawmakers

This is basic human nature. People have a foundational fascination with watching someone else’s demise, but we face huge blind spots when it comes to our own situations. In fact, success is apparently the biggest predictor of failure.

Success breeds failure?

According to “Why Smart Executives Fail” by Sydney Finkelstein failure is usually the result of success and arrogance that breeds a willingness to ignore one’s own – and one’s company’s – vulnerabilities.

It’s easy to see the siren song of success as the precursor to disaster from the outside and after-the-fact, but I’ve been on the inside, too, and it is such a seductive situation. In 2000 we were a struggling startup and then we got a huge investment from another startup that had “made it.” We felt validated, breathed a little more easily, didn’t sweat the cash flow for a month or two, appeased our investors, set our sights on bigger markets, more employees and longer sales cycles. We lost our paranoia.

This was in the boom right before the bust of 2011. But our investment was in stock, not cash, and guess what that became worth all too quickly?

Should good leaders be paranoid?

I don’t happen to think that paranoia is a healthy way to live life in general, so no, I don’t think good leaders are paranoids. But good leaders do understand the natural cycles of success – which must include failure.

Good leadership is about personal maturity as much as anything. The best leaders we evaluate with 40/40 hindsight as brilliant – Steve Jobs for example – all suffered tremendous and often public failure. They don’t let failure or success stop them in their relentless pursuit of a personal vision of success and this allows them to ignore (or at least filter) the banterings of the echo chamber, which tend to get all caught up in the extreme ends of the cycle.

Leaders as Masters

The best of anything – especially leaders – learn to watch the cycles that crop up in everything they do; they learn to anticipate them, plan for them and ride the waves to minimize extreme results that knock the system out of balance. They master the cycles – primarily within themselves – and use this mastery to guide the system into more productive behavior – which hopefully looks like profits, jobs and value (not in that order).

This is a level of InPower – personal – mastery that requires some experience, but more than even experience, it requires wisdom. The potential lives in us all. Are you tapping your reservoir of potential mastery?

It’s this level of mastery I’m interested in for myself and my executive coaching clients. Everything else gets you trapped inside the echo chamber.

What leaders have you admired who were masters of themselves and their businesses? Did success precede your most spectacular failure? What is the relationship of success and failure in your career? Has paranoia worked for you? How have you transformed failure into success? 

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