INSIGHT: When Analysis Becomes Paralysis

by | Aug 13, 2015 | Coaching Advice, Insights & Inspiration

Have you ever noticed how unmade decisions can gang up on you and hold you down?

INSIGHT: Analysis has it’s limits. Know where they are.

If you’re ever feeling powerless, make a few decisions. Watch how your INpower meter pops up. Choice is power so when you need a power boost, make a choice.

But some decisions seem harder to make than others and the ones that drag us down the most are the ones we want to decide themselves, but which simply don’t comply with our desire to make it so easy! We want to decide X but the data doesn’t justify it, or doesn’t show up in time or is rather debatable… so we don’t decide. And then that decision just hangs around us, piled on our desks, dangling off our todo lists or nagging us in the form of that somebody who wants the decision made even more than we do. We think about it more. We wonder aloud. We ask questions and noodle it with colleagues, but the decision simply doesn’t present itself.


Here’s a solution. Just say no. Or set a date to say no if the yes hasn’t appeared by then. This frees up your energy and – like a butterfly – if the decision needs to be yes, it will usually come back to you again. Hopefully in an easier-to-say-yes-to format! When you say no, remember to be open to it coming back to you, transformed into a yes-able set of options.

Dana Theus

Dana Theus

Dana Theus is an executive coach specializing in helping you activate your highest potential to succeed and to shine. With her support emerging and established leaders, especially women, take powerful, high-road shortcuts to developing their authentic leadership style and discovering new levels of confidence and impact. Dana has worked for Fortune 50 companies, entrepreneurial tech startups, government and military agencies and non-profits and she has taught graduate-level courses for several Universities. learn more

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