Why Mentorship Isn’t Enough To Help Women Get into Leadership

by | Nov 14, 2023 | Blog, Leadership, Mentoring

We hear a lot about how, in addition to mentors and mentorship, women need assistance to get into leadership. They need sponsors to help make it into the executive ranks. But how do you learn what a sponsor wants? Dana turns it around and invites you to start sponsoring others now, no matter what level you are at. This, she says, helps you develop a leadership mindset that helps you attract sponsors yourself. Learn other tips for attracting career sponsors on this month’s InPower Coffee Break coaching call May 30th.  – InPower Editors

Research into why some people make it into executive leadership, and some people don’t, has illuminated an interesting phenomenon. It turns that that while mentors talk to you – helping you work more effectively in the corporate culture – sponsors talk about you in positive ways– tossing your name in the hat for a plum job behind closed doors or pointing out some great work you did to someone who can help you advance in your career.

Sponsors, it turns out, are a key to talent development in that sponsors help promising leaders get the right experiential opportunity at the right time in their careers. The higher you go the more sponsors are critical to your success – including at the CXO and board levels.

Yet when I talk to CEOs, board members and other senior executives I rarely hear much about their sponsorship activities. I hear more about how much they enjoy mentorship. And who doesn’t? Nurturing talent is one of the best parts of running a business and so we tend to spend more energy on it. Sponsoring others is also usually best done privately to protect against unhelpful gossip, but this doesn’t shine much light on how this important talent development activity really works. As a result it’s challenging for those lower in the ranks to understand how to be a good sponsor, and attract sponsors themselves.

So I’d like to ask mentors to help their mentees become good sponsors and become proactive in attracting sponsors, too. Yes, I want to encourage everyone – even middle and lower level managers – to sponsor others more consciously. Why train mid-level employees to be good sponsors? Because when you sponsor others, you’re:

looking out for the business and helping strategically develop talent;
rewarding others’ good work directly; and
becoming more conscious of what makes a good leader in your organization so you can continue to develop as a leader yourself.

This last point is pretty important for lower and mid-level employees. When you start sponsoring others, you become better able to see how you can proactively position yourself to those above you.

Becoming an active sponsor puts you in a leadership mindset, regardless of what your actual authority or responsibility is. And that leadership mindset pays off by helping you lead more consciously, develop talent where you see it and take on an “ownership” orientation to the company – no matter what level you’re at now. And all this pays off by making your leadership abilities more apparent to all those who might sponsor you!

Taking on a sponsor mindset is one strategy for becoming attractive to executive career sponsors who can help you achieve your professional goals, but there are more.

Join the InPower Coaching Community to download an eBook on how to attract an executive Sponsor.

Have a mentee who would benefit? Please share the link!

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Dana Theus

Dana Theus

Dana Theus is an executive coach specializing in helping you activate your highest potential to succeed and to shine. With her support emerging and established leaders, especially women, take powerful, high-road shortcuts to developing their authentic leadership style and discovering new levels of confidence and impact. Dana has worked for Fortune 50 companies, entrepreneurial tech startups, government and military agencies and non-profits and she has taught graduate-level courses for several Universities. learn more

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