Dear Congress…

by | Jun 10, 2015 | Coaching Advice, Leadership

Leadership doesn’t just happen in board rooms or hallways, it happens at the highest levels – sometimes. Leslie reminds us what a breakdown in top leadership looks like – and draws on a concept of balanced leadership we can all learn from to show us how to fix it. – InPower Editors

You are the best example of why I do the work I do. And that is not a compliment.

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Beyond all the rhetoric, positions and posturing, what I see unfolding in our political system is the destructive potential of grit-only leadership, which, at its worst, is a bully’s stance. The beauty of grit (as opposed to grace) lies in its potential for strength, focus, and resolve. But when grit becomes divorced from grace’s capacity for collaboration and compassion, leadership devolves into what I call “growl” mode.

With its ‘my way or the highway’ and ‘winner take all’ mentality, growl leadership isn’t strong; it’s brittle. It doesn’t move things forward; it fractures them. It isn’t grounded, it’s stuck in cement shoes, taking everyone down with it. Growl doesn’t create sustainable growth; it fuels the kind of greed that torpedoes countries, economies and ecosystems. It shuts down governments.

It’s only downhill from here if we can’t learn to stand for our principles while flexing our positions… if we can’t encourage both accountability and kindness and craft policies that do the same. I know this kind of blended leadership is possible. I’ve seen it, and it’s productive and transformative. And it’s necessary now – from you.

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Congress, please do this work. Learn to stand and bend at the same time, in service to the principles and ideals that we all share deep down. Stop striving for the perfect answer or the big win. Please aim higher than that. Show us the true power of firmness and compassion braided together for the greater good, not for the next election. You have shown us the worst of ourselves. Now show us the best.

 

Leslie

Leslie

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