Key Takeaways:
- Integrating work & life is the real balancing act. Forget the old tug-of-war between the office and everything else—true well-being comes when we design lives (and workplaces) where our personal values and professional goals can actually coexist without a constant cage match.
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If you’re running on fumes, you’re not alone. Only 11% of people surveyed reported having high energy the day before—proof that burnout isn’t just in your head, it’s everywhere, and it’s waving red flags at how we work.
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Purpose fuels energy. When people see the impact of their work—like those call center employees who met the scholarship recipient their calls helped—it ignites motivation. Meaning matters, especially for keeping millennial women (and, let’s be honest, everyone) engaged.
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Working more doesn’t mean doing more. Research shows productivity dips after 6–8 hours, no matter how noble your hustle. Sustainable well-being means working smarter, not longer—your brain will thank you.
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Stress isn’t always the enemy. Your mindset about stress determines how it affects you. If you believe stress can help, you’re more likely to grow from it, bounce back faster, and even build resilience. Think of it as mental judo.
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Self-care is not selfish—it’s strategic. Running on four hours of sleep is the brain equivalent of downing a six-pack. Prioritizing sleep, nutrition, and movement isn’t indulgent—it’s your ticket to showing up strong for others and yourself.
I recently had the pleasure of hearing best selling author and Gallup researcher, Tom Rath, speak at a conference. While researching his latest book, he asked 10,000 people a simple question: Did you have a great deal of energy yesterday? If I asked you that question, how would you respond? Maybe your child was up sick last night, or you had a particularly big project to finish, but look at your energy average over the past month. Energy levels are an important indicator of well-being and engagement, and chronic exhaustion is a driver of burnout. By the way, he found that only 11% of the folks he surveyed reported having “a great deal of energy yesterday.”
The way we work isn’t working when scores of talented people are disengaged and lack energy. Until larger workplace issues are fixed (or at least acknowledged), these statistics continue to push me to advocate for what Rath calls “sustainable well-being.” You can build more sustainable well-being with these strategies:
Have meaningful work
In a recent survey by HR company ICEDR, 94% of millennial women said that one way to recruit and retain them is to provide meaningful work and inspire them with a sense of purpose. In order to facilitate that, companies need to place more emphasis on “end user” connection. In one such study, Dr. Adam Grant and colleagues worked with call center employees at the University of Michigan. Call center employees had the fun task of cold calling alums to ask for money, but one of the groups in his study actually got to meet a scholarship recipient and talk to him first hand. The scholarship recipient talked about how much the scholarship had changed his life, and he thanked the folks in the call center for their hard work. Once the call center workers realized how their work had an impact, they became motivated to work harder; in fact, their weekly revenue increased 400% (Grant et al., 2007)!
That fits your strengths and interests
How often do you get to do what you do best each day? When I was a lawyer, I often left the best of who I was at home and showed up to work acting how I thought a lawyer should act – tough and detached. Two of my strongest strengths are kindness and gratitude, so it’s no wonder that I often felt drained and inauthentic each day. Research shows that when people use their strengths consistently at work, they are happier, feel more confident, experience faster growth and development, and experience less stress.
Work less, accomplish more
I know – you may not think this is even remotely possible where you work, but the research contradicts the managers who think face time and hours logged create sustainable success. Harvard Business School professor Leslie Perlow found that scheduling time off rather than working more hours actually increased organizational and personal productivity (Perlow, 2012). Additional studies show that for industrial workers, productivity dramatically decreases after eight hours a day. For knowledge workers, productivity drops after six hours (Alcorn, 2013). Simply put, more hours don’t automatically lead to more productivity; in fact, it’s usually the opposite.
Develop a “stress helps” mindset
Your stress mindset is your belief about whether stress has enhancing or debilitating consequences. The type of mindset you adopt about stress – either a “stress helps” mindset or a “stress hurts” mindset – highly influences psychological, physiological and behavioral outcomes. While chronic stress is not good for your health, some stress can impact your health in positive ways and aid physical recovery and immunity. Those who adopted a “stress helps” mindset were more likely to seek out feedback and therefore grow as a result of experiencing stress and had more adaptive cortisol profiles under acute stress (Crum, Salovey, & Achor, 2013).
Put your own health first…so you can do more for others. This is not new advice, but I have found that common sense doesn’t always translate into common practice. Too many high-achieving women I work with consistently leave themselves off of their own “to-do” lists. Tom Rath noted that four hours of sleep loss leads to the same level of impairment as a six-pack of beer!
I recently had an exchange with a colleague on Twitter. I mentioned the statistic about impairment after sleep loss, and he responded with pride about how he has conditioned himself to function on four hours of sleep or less each day. We need to change the conversation around self-care being a serious element of resilience and well-being, not the first thing cut in favor of adding more to our already too-busy schedules.
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