INSIGHT: Don’t Brag

by | May 30, 2014 | Insights & Inspiration

 

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How can you make sure people know how great you are?

It’s not bragging if you’re helping others be great too. Teach success.

I get asked all the time how to talk confidently about your abilities and potential without sounding stuck up. There are several strategies, but the basic one is – if you don’t want to brag, don’t. Challenge yourself to find another way to share the information. The only no-no is to stay silent.

How to answer that challenge? The primary strategy is to make sure in your heart that you don’t actually think you’re better than everyone else. Your mouth almost always knows what your heart is feeling, so make sure you’re heart’s in the right place before you open your mouth.

But go a step farther. Don’t just share your successes; share what you learned about success. Share the 1-2 key lessons learned that helped you achieve great outcomes. Teach success.

People appreciate it when others share their secrets to success. So share.

 

Dana Theus

Dana Theus

Dana Theus is an executive coach specializing in helping you activate your highest potential to succeed and to shine. With her support emerging and established leaders, especially women, take powerful, high-road shortcuts to developing their authentic leadership style and discovering new levels of confidence and impact. Dana has worked for Fortune 50 companies, entrepreneurial tech startups, government and military agencies and non-profits and she has taught graduate-level courses for several Universities. learn more

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