INSIGHT: Provocative

by | Jun 27, 2014 | Insights & Inspiration

What you do when someone provokes you determines everything to come.

Punch back, and you’re in a fight.

Recently someone provoked me. I don’t think they actually meant to pick a fight with me, but for a moment I felt punched in the gut and saw red. I almost punched back and escalated the exchange into a fight.

I didn’t though. I choose to stand my ground, but was mature and gracious.

I’m so glad. He softened his next communication and the fight didn’t happen. He helped me accomplish something important and is now a professional ally.

How do you respond when provoked? How can you descalate a fight before it happens? Just don’t punch back and see what happens.
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Dana Theus

Dana Theus

Dana Theus is an executive coach specializing in helping you activate your highest potential to succeed and to shine. With her support emerging and established leaders, especially women, take powerful, high-road shortcuts to developing their authentic leadership style and discovering new levels of confidence and impact. Dana has worked for Fortune 50 companies, entrepreneurial tech startups, government and military agencies and non-profits and she has taught graduate-level courses for several Universities. learn more
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